Leave a comment

September 15, 2013 by crazymadliving

It all started with a spear through Da Husband’s leg.

Three Sundays ago, Da Husband went spear fishing while I was on babysitting duty.  I had the whole day planned out… some indoor training, followed by a hair cut, taking a walk with the kids and dogs and catching up on some work.

Until a phone call woke me up, and Da Husband’s buddy telling me that there had been a little accident, that there was a spear through his leg and that they were waiting for air rescue.

So, instead of training, having my hair cut, walking the kids and dogs and working, the day turned into a series of trips to hospital.

Da Husband and I both had our own sets of heroes that day.  His included his fishing buddy who stayed calm while trying to get help in an area with no cell phone reception, the rest of his fishing buddies on their boat who ultimately got hold of the NSRI, and the paramedics and hospital crew who helped him.  Me?  My day would have been a disaster, had it not been for The Bergie (Meg, we really need to get you another nickname) and Die Hard (although, now it needs to change to Olympic Sofie, methinks), who cancelled their morning and landed on my doorstep to help – no questions asked.

Getting Speared:  A bit of a day-ender...

Getting Speared: A bit of a day-ender…

He’s OK, thank goodness (and currently on a boys’ fishing trip in Namibia).  But that incident sparked a thought process… Something that had been a mere whisper the past year became a loud voice.  I couldn’t ignore it any more…

So I decided to change my life.

A few days after The Spear Incident, I got called into a meeting to discuss some changes to my job.  Ideas and opinions were exchanged, but by the end of that meeting I knew what had to be done.

For the first time in many years, I decided to put my family first.

I resigned the next morning.

By the following week I had two confirmed & really cool clients.

As from 1 October, I am officially a one-girl-band.  A lone wolf.  A freelancer.

Change is scary-awesome

Now, I have freelanced before and ended up failing miserably.  I made really stupid mistakes and paid for them.  But the important thing is to learn from your mistakes, and boy, did I learn some good lessons!


This time I’m ready.

Yeah, it’s kinda scary to know that I am in charge of my own destiny from now on.  But I wouldn’t want it any other way.

Looking ahead

  • Although I’ve been plagued by a sinus infection and haven’t been able to train properly for the past couple of weeks, I’m excited to get back on the horse again.
  • My running rehab is coming to an end this month (ran at 90% of my body weight last week) and I have a bunch of races to look forward to. I can’t wait to get back on the running track with my friends.
  • After too much time spent complaining, I am finally ready to give my health the attention it deserves and will start to report back on my progress in the coming weeks & months.
  • My kids tell me every day how happy they are that I will be spending more time with them in the week, and not just an hour in the evening.

I have a lot to look forward to…


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

300 Days Of Training

My Instagram

Happy #redsockfriday! #shoOops When I work at the @capetownfunnyfestival I'm usually hidden away in some hidey hole, so the audience reaction feels different. Last night I was in the audience, and the experience was absolutely incredible. Hearing the gasps, the uncontrollable giggles, and spontaneous laughter... Seeing the delight in the audience's eyes and how they jump to their feet for a standing ovation... there is magic in the air at the @baxtertheatre, and you'll be a fool to miss this show.

#JiveCTFunnyFestival #comedy #capetown #lovecapetown #funny #laughter #magic He did it again. Fresh from the oven... thanks @brightboykris!

#bread #homebaked #baking #food You don't do #Cubs #Scouts for the fame and glory. But I love this pack of mine, even when dealing with them is like hearding cats ❤

And then their parents surprise you with a ginormous bag of your favourite chocolate. This #Akela has sweaty eyes right now. @justinbieberkittie doesn't care what or who he sits on. As long as it is soft.

#instapet #catsofinstagram #family #dominate Oh my gosh, I'm SO excited. Just received my mini photographic studio-in-a-box and am so impressed.
#lightbox #photo #excited #play Thinking back to my cross-country trip with @theunogwaja. Some of my favourite humans are in this pic. I miss them so. 
Also... check our awesome @newbalanceza kit... comfort for daaaayyyyyysssss (I still find myself wearing something from the range on the daily)
#bettertogether #unogwaja2017 #makeadifference Yup, I can taste that Cheddamelt and double thick milkshake already, @_official_spur_sa 
But at the same time I can't help but wonder how real this is 😶 It's so handy to have a #baker #boy in the house. Finally... an assistant in the kitchen, and @brightboykris is becoming an ace at decorating too. #homebaked #cupcakes

Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 702 other followers

%d bloggers like this: